Lightworkers who play in the Dark

• Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix – Interview with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.

  The following episode was recorded for the Sex, Sin and Sensibility Podcast, hosted by Miss Drea and sweetgirl julia, which I highly recommend to my listeners as a valuable resource for high quality BDSM and kink education. You can find it on all major podcast players. I was invited as a guest on their show, and they were kind enough to grant me permission to republish the episode here to share with my audience. In this episode, we discuss the contents of my new book, The Dominatrix Archetypes®: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom. We explore what the 4 Archetypes within a Dominatrix are, and how each Archetype serves to connect with the individual needs of every submissive to create well-rounded and balanced scenes within the course of a BDSM session. This interview was a fun one because one of the hosts, sweetgirl julia, is a personally collared slave of mine, and also one of the submissive coaches in The Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, where we work together to mentor women in the art of Female Domination. julia provides valuable insight about the importance of each Archetype from the submissive perspective.We discussed on how I first started out on my Domme journey, experiencing my first “Domme high,” the importance of domination language, domination energy, and domination personalization, how Evolutionary Dominatrices are Lightworkers who play in the Dark, why I feel being a Dominatrix is the biggest self-love exercise you can do, and other juicy topics. I want to thank Miss Drea and julia for hosting this beautiful episode, and for their graciousness in allowing me to share it with you. Follow the Sex, Sin and Sensibility Podcast at these links:https://www.instagram.com/s3x_sin_sensibilityhttps://open.spotify.com/show/2NlO0zmtgOx4SMroHtEuOH?si=yG7jgcbSRRWe2-72tkFxDAThis podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to https://patreon.com/damianachiphd.I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community. Many thanks to:Richard, Black Orchid, meg, Shay, EL, Daniel R., p, Caroline, Sadie S., Nick, Soletramp, marc, McKenna G., Eva, nipples, Ms_Coco_1111, Luna Canes, Gala, LadySublime, Mistress Nacole, Julian S, Mystic Dax, uuee crump, vincent v., Divine Diva, Tom, sweetgirl julia, Gs, Jake, DJW, pussy, Andres, Bill Bumpus, Michael, Tracey C., Betty, Richard Tackett, Domina Flora.And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia.✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨Links Page | http://damianachiphd.comPodcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.comAcademy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.comBook | https://thedominatrixarchetypes.comPatreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphdCommunity | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.comCoaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Conscious Kink Q&A (Episode 11)

  The video version of this episode can be found on my YouTube channel.The following is the recording of a Conscious Kink Q&A Zoom Call that I hosted for my Patreon community. I’m sharing it to this podcast to educate, and raise awareness and understanding about Conscious Kink, Conscious BDSM and Conscious FemDom. I had planned to host these calls once a month, but I took many months off to write my book, The Dominatrix Archetypes: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom. Now that the book has been launched, I will be going back to a more regular schedule. If you are interested in participating on these calls, you are welcome to join my Patreon community. There were so many great questions on this call, like these: What’s the best first step to get into the professional FemDom Industry? Can you tell me more about working in a dungeon?How many years has it taken for a sub to become your full time slave, and have you terminated any of those relationships because it wasn’t working anymore?How does one enter the world of FemDom and find partners that are safe and knowledgeable?Can you give some examples of how BDSM can be healing for Dommes and for subs?Why do you think some people who were raised in highly religious households are drawn to kink?My partner wants me to choke him during sex. Choking seems to be a form of breath play. My hesitancy is safety. What do you suggest?It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection. This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd. I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community. Many thanks to: aadam975, Andres, Kaya A, Michael, MiKi22, Mistress Nacole, slave nipples, Peter R, pussy doll, Richard L.T., a aramaz, Albertus, allinthebrain, Bill Bumpus, Divine Diva, DJW, Eva, Domina Flora, Iryna S, Jeff, Julian S, L’Mae C, Mystic Dax, Nevaeh, Omanafire, Anonymous, Tom, Tracey C, Vincent V, Betty, Gala, jake, Mark R, Ms Coco 1111, Lady Sublime, uuee crump, Johnny SD, Raven, and sweetgirl julia. And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia.✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨Links Page | http://damianachiphd.comPodcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.comAcademy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.comBook | https://thedominatrixarchetypes.comPatreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphdCommunity | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.comCoaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Conscious Kink Q&A (Episode 10)

  The video version of this episode can be found on my YouTube channel.This is the recording of the first Zoom call that I hosted for my Patreon community, with the intention of sharing this content publicly on my podcast, to raise awareness and understanding about Conscious Kink, Conscious BDSM and Conscious FemDom. These Zoom calls will eventually be reserved for my Patreon members, but for a limited time, the invitation is open to everyone. All participants on Zoom are video-off to protect anonymity. There were so many great questions on this call, like, “Can someone be trained to become kinky for their partner?”, and “What are some tips to keep in mind for new Mistresses to avoid common rookie mistakes?” and “Can you talk about the issue of lack of sex education and what to do when a therapist makes a sex-negative statement? My first reactions have always been to doubt myself because I am not a mental health professional, they are.”It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection.This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd. Special thanks to my Patreon members (listed below). Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community. DroneID_6999, JJ, Kaya Anais, Mistress Nacole, pussy doll, Richard T, Kate R, Andres, uuee crump, AP, Alana DR, Divine Diva, DJW, Domina Flora, Julian S, L’Mae C, Lourdes I, Matt, Mazi, Mystic Dax, Tom, Tracy C, Vincent V, Jennifer K, Angela, Bill Bumpus, Jake, Larry W, Mark R, pyrophite5, Sarah F, Tom W, Betty, Angie B, Johnny SD, and Mistress Persephone Rose. And many thanks to the editor, Geoff Nigl.✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨ Links Page | http://damianachiphd.com Podcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.com Academy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.com Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com Coaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd Twitter | https://twitter.com/damianachiphd Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/damianachiphd #damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• The Healing Power of BDSM: A Conversation with Podcaster, Relationship Coach and Exploring Submissive, Wolf Castillo

  The following episode is one of the most important, deep and honest conversations I have ever had. It was originally recorded for Follow the Wolf Podcast, hosted by Wolf Castillo, who was kind enough to give me permission to republish it here. I was actually the interview guest, but I turned some questions onto the host, too, and he graciously and vulnerably shared. This talk was so informative and educational, that I would be amiss if I didn’t share it here with my listeners as well. In this episode, we talked about what BDSM really is, and how it can provide healing when done out of love and conscious intension. It is for anyone who is curious and wants learn more about and explore BDSM and kink, and it is for anyone who has been playing in this realm for some time but hasn’t felt quite satisfied with their experiences so far. And it is for anyone who knows and appreciates the beauty of kink.We talk about how BDSM has unfortunately been, so stigmatized, pathologized and stereotyped in the mainstream, that there has been an huge amount of judgement placed upon those who do it, that it has been difficult and/or shameful for those who have a secret desire to explore their sexuality in the realm of BDSM, kink and erotic domination. We talk about how Female domination, or FemDom, is not only healing for the submissive, but also for the Dominatrix, and how being kinky doesn’t have to originate from trauma or abuse, or being screwed up or broken in some way. I want to thank and acknowledge Wolf for his beautiful vulnerability and willingness to share so openly and honestly about his personal kinks and submissive journey during this podcast. This is the first time he had ever shared openly about such a deeply personal topic before, and I honor his courage. His example serves as a huge inspiration for those out there listening, who may also have submissive desires but has had no outlet or safe container in which to explore, for fear of being judged or not loved for who they are. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, willingness to explore and play in the dark. Make sure you find BDSM practitioners or partners to play with who feel this way about it. You should feel better, lighter, happier and fulfilled after playing with a lightworker Domme. If you play with a Domme whom you don’t feel safe with, who don’t see you or value you as a human being, or who are taking advantage of you financially or otherwise, run away. That is not real domination, and that is NOT BDSM. If you play with a Domme who you feel is well intentioned, but you have feelings of guilt, shame, or self-judgement afterwards, you may be in the early stages of your exploration, and you are going through a normal process called the submissive’s journey. Be gentle with yourself and take your time as you learn how to accept and love this part of you. Work with a kink-aware or kink-knowledgeable therapist (like me) who can help navigate this journey with you. Find community. You don’t have to do it alone. And it’s SO WORTH IT. There is so much magic and beauty in this world. I wish you a happy and exciting kink journey.To work with Wolf Castillo:https://linktr.ee/FollowtheWolf ---This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community. Sending my special thanks to:Andre, pussy doll, Richard T, Domina Flora, Delwyn W, Divine Diva, Evette R, feline goddess, L’Mae C, Mystic Dax, Tom, Tracey C, Vincent V, Bella, Persephone Rose, Betty, Bill Bumpus, Jake, Kinky Curator, Sara F, Tom W, uuee crump, Johnny SD and Mr. Grey.And many thanks to the editor, Geoff Nigl. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• 6 Submissives share their Positive and Negative BDSM Experiences with Dommes

  The following is a recorded interview that I did with 6 sub coaches who staff my Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy. I call them sub coaches because they are submissives who work alongside me in the Academy to coach my students to teach them about the submissive mindset. Submissive psychology is a huge component of my unique FemDom training program, and the personal insight that my sub coaches bring to the education is invaluable. The sub coaches are experienced subs of 20-40 years. They have high levels of self esteem, and are extremely intelligent, self-aware, and giving. They are just as committed as I am, to the mission of preserving our beloved artform of BDSM, and educating the next generations of Lightworker Dommes. My sub coaches are also a core part of my very close-knit kink family. They are my personal slaves, subs and friends whom I love and treasure dearly. This interview was recorded 2 years ago for the purposes of educating my students. It was never intended to be shared on a public podcast, but I have decided to share it with you because I have heard over and over from my students that this interview had a deep impact on them, and many were moved to tears listening to it. This feedback made me realize that sharing these intimate, personal stories from the point of view of these submissives could benefit many of my listeners.In this interview with the sub coaches, I asked them to share some personal stories of negative, harmful, or traumatic experiences that they have had with Dommes, and then ones of positive, reparative, healing experiences. Hearing the traumatic stories is very enlightening because subs don’t typically share their painful experiences with anyone. Most of these painful memories had just been kept privately to themselves for years or decades. We have the power to affect another human being on a deep, long lasting level. We can consciously choose to affect someone in a positive healing way, or unconsciously and carelessly affect someone in a negative, hurtful way. Hearing the sub coaches’ positive stories in this interview were a welcome follow up to the traumatic ones, and were equally impactful, in heartwarming, inspiring ways. These healing stories were just as important to hear, as they are wonderful examples of how Dominatrices who practice BDSM consciously are “Lightworkers who play in the Dark,” as in the title of this podcast. Healing experiences can override the negative ones. I can contend that BDSM, when practiced consciously and correctly, has a powerful healing effect. Many subs I know say that BDSM with their favorite Domme is the best therapy they’ve ever experienced. BDSM sessions heal when done with love. ---This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon patrons - your patronage is much appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways, like participating on the Q&A episodes, BDSM domination episodes, and access to my private Telegram group, where you can ask me questions every week, and do 1-on1 personal video chats with me. Become my patron by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd. I'd like to send a very special thanks to my Patreon members – it means so much to me to know that what I’m doing is appreciated:Duchess Amanda Lore Rein, Andres, Domina Flora, pussy doll, Richard T, Tonghe L, DJW, Evette R, Karo K, Keith F, Layla L, Tom, Tracey C, Andrea, Annette K, Betty, Bill B, Jake, Nodsutsamel, Persephone Rose, Sylvie, Tom W, Tsarina O, Priestess Francesca, Sum Ad.And many thanks to the editor, Geoff Nigl. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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