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Life Juggle: Top Tips for Balancing Career, Family, and Love | Gabby Reece (Replay)
Gabby Reece was declared one of the five most beautiful women in the world, and she could certainly have made a career out of modeling. But she decided that being pretty wasn’t exactly what she wanted to bring to the table. So she pursued what turned her on, volleyball, and eventually became one of the world’s most successful female athletes.
On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Gabby Reece talks about how hard it is to determine precisely what you want out of life, and how difficult it is to stay focused on getting it. But she also discusses learning to be vulnerable, shares stories about childhood, marriage and motherhood, and explains why she fulfills different roles in the home than she does in her career.
Check out Gabby's new podcast: https://www.gabriellereece.com/category/the-gabby-reece-show/
[Original air date: 1/29/20].
SHOW NOTES:
Gabby discusses leveraging her beauty to become more successful in athletics [2:50]
Being pretty is not what Gabby wants to bring to the table [5:37]
How do you balance being in the present with thinking about where you’ll be in the future? [7:37]
Gabby talks about how hard it is to clearly define success and stay focused on it [9:20]
Gabby shares the story of her childhood trauma and how she never fit in [11:30]
Gabby discusses accepting what cannot be changed [13:19]
“Input from your kids is like an ice pick to the eyeball.” [16:47]
Gabby credits a lot of her success to fear [19:41]
Nothing in life, even a 22-year long marriage, is guaranteed [22:09]
Gabby tries to bring the athlete’s attitude of excellence to her relationships too [26:05]
Gabby explains why she wants to be submissive in her home life [27:57]
Real alpha males need to be compassionate and honorable [30:35]
Lisa and Gabby discuss differences between women and men [35:30]
Gabby talks about the need to figure out what you really want [40:05]
Gabby discusses her attempts to become more vulnerable and more tender [42:22]
You have to lose to win [44:54]
Gabby shares her superpower [47:25]
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Decode Men: Unlock the Secrets to Better Relationships with the Men in Your Life | Justin Baldoni (Replay)
Masculinity is being challenged on all fronts by women, men, judges, and corporate cultures everywhere.
In this episode, Justin Baldoni joins me to discuss his new book, Man Enough. We discuss the problems men are facing with finding acceptance among themselves and with their female partners to be more open and vulnerable. The issues facing men today reach beyond just masculinity and ego. It’s an issue affecting women as well.
Justin dives into how we as women were raised hearing and being impacted by the same stereotypes on gender roles as men were. Whether you are married, dating, or raising a son, this episode will help you start a conversation around the challenges men are having with learning to be more empathetic and open.
Order Justin Baldoni’s new book, Man Enough: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063055597?tag=authorweb-20
[Original air date: 5-19-21].
SHOW NOTES:
Being Human | Responding to error, having the bar set too low, and being empathetic [4:10]
Masculinity | Justin unpacks masculine culture and dominance and how to end suffering [8:04]
Power | Justin explains breaks down the zero-sum game of exerting power [12:26]
Enough | Justin on why feeling enough means other’s success isn’t a threat [18:50]
Socialized Women | Justin discusses the behaviors women are taught [22:25]
Women Leaders | Justin highlights the disparity in how women are viewed in leadership [24:40]
Open Men | When men risk vulnerability but his partner can’t handle it [28:11]
Patriarchal Standards| How boys and girls raised desensitized to the same stereotypes [32:11]
Traditions | Justin on why questioning is important and it’s not about right or wrong [38:05]
Rightful Seat | Justin shares when your ego is tied to where you sit, move your seat [43:01]
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Top 10 Signs You're in a Manipulative Relationship | Rick Alan Ross - PT 2
Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination.
We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We’ll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media.
Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson’s “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives.
Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in!
SHOWNOTES
00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.
04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.
08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.
12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.
15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.
18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.
21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.
25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.
29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.
33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.
35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.
39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.
44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.
47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.
51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.
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Top 10 Signs You're in a Manipulative Relationship | Rick Alan Ross - PT 1
Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today’s conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy.
We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson’s manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities.
Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart’s and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you’re curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy.
SHOWNOTES
00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.
04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.
08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.
12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.
15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.
18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.
21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.
25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.
29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.
33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.
35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.
39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.
44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.
47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.
51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.
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Welcome to your Bolden Age. Enter with Attitude, not apologies! This is where you leave the embarrassment and shame at the door. Age ain't nothing but a number my homie and you should NEVER hold yourself back! You CAN do anything! You are NEVER too old.