This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space ...
Terri Cole: Stop Trying to Fix Everyone. Signs You’re a High-Functioning Codependent and How to Break the Cycle
What does it really mean to help someone, and where do we draw the line? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with the incredible Terri Cole, a psychotherapist whose own life experiences offer a profound look into the world of high-functioning codependency. Terri shares an unforgettable story about the night she brought a stranger home from the train station—a gesture that sparks our exploration into the blurred lines between helping and interfering. Join us as we delve into the psychological impacts of codependency, discussing how our desires to help can sometimes control both our lives and those around us. Terri provides crucial insights on recognizing when empathy exceeds healthy limits and the vital importance of establishing boundaries for our well-being. If you’ve ever found yourself in the role of a rescuer, or if you’re seeking to understand the emotional intricacies of codependency, this heartfelt discussion is not to be missed. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Bringing home a stranger 03:13 What is high functioning codependency? 06:02 Signs of an HFC 07:47 The line between helping and controlling 11:14 How to support without overstepping 15:59 The power of asking expansive questions 18:30 The burden of being 'nice' 20:47 Breaking the cycle of auto advice-giving 25:20 Letting someone be their own hero 28:03 Why parents should let kids fail sometimes 39:05 Asking before giving advice 43:20 How projection affects our relationships 46:07 Why asking for help feels so hard 52:26 How to stop tying worth to helping others 58:09 Stop caring what others think 1:02:18 Showing up the same online and offline 1:07:40 The cost of perfectionism 1:12:25 How to truly rest your mind and body Follow Terri: https://www.terricole.com/ https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ https://www.youtube.com/@terri_cole https://www.tiktok.com/@terri_cole Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Are You a Prisoner of your Pain and Past? 4 Steps to Forgiveness and the Power to Letting Go
Why is it so hard to forgive and let go? I’ve been there–caught up in replaying moments where other people hurt me, and waiting for apologies that never come. And honestly? It’s exhausting. In this episode, I’m sharing my own struggles with forgiveness and the surprising things I’ve learned about how much holding onto pain can weigh us down. We’ll talk about what forgiveness really is (hint: it’s not about them), how our emotions affect us physically, and some simple practices that can help us let go and feel lighter. If you’re ready to stop letting the past take up so much space and make room for peace and joy, this one’s for you What Was Discussed: 00:00 Intro 01:08 Do we really need an apology to heal? 04:05 Getting hurt is just part of life 04:54 The impact of pent-up emotions on your body 05:36 Just let it go 06:29 Forgiveness isn’t about them, it’s about you 08:09 Forgiveness is strength, not weakness 10:22 How journaling helps you heal 12:33 Putting forgiveness in God’s hands 15:53 The 4 steps to forgiveness 17:43 Becoming forgivingly fit 21:11 Imagine forgiveness in your mind Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Liz Moody: Simple Ways to Break Bad Habits and Change Your Life
Are you ready to make wellness feel simple and joyful? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I’m sitting down with the wonderful Liz Moody, author of 100 Ways to Change Your Life, and we’re talking all about making wellness simple, fun, and actually doable. Liz shares her journey from dealing with anxiety to creating a life she truly loves, and she’s got so many beautiful tips on building self-trust, finding motivation that feels real, and ditching all the “perfect” wellness routines that just don’t work. We chat about creating small changes that last, embracing our bodies with love, and tuning into what really lights us up. If you’re ready for a fresh take on wellness that lets you just be you, then come join us—this episode is all about finding joy in every step. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:07 "Never be the one to say no to yourself" 07:25 What does your best life look like? 11:37 When comfort foods don’t bring comfort 15:46 The power of curiosity to break bad habits 17:48 Why accountability helps you stick to goals 21:00 Purpose and connection keep us alive longer 24:12 Fear won’t get you to your goals 26:23 Finding your motivation to workout 31:49 Living in your body vs. Looking at it 37:50 Micro choices that redefine your life 44:02 Temptation bundling 47:11 Staying in touch with family and friends 49:47 Think about your death 56:30 Identify energy drains in your life 1:02:57 Setting boundaries to reclaim your energy 1:08:56 Be gentle with yourselves Follow Liz: https://www.lizmoody.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lizmoody/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lizmoody https://www.facebook.com/lizmoodyhere/ https://twitter.com/lizmoodyhere https://www.lizmoody.com/the-liz-moody-podcast/ https://www.lizmoody.com/100-ways-to-change-your-life-book/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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How to Overcome Social Anxiety: Simple Tools to Build Your Confidence
Ever walked into a room and felt like everyone’s eyes were on you, every flaw on display? You're not alone! In this episode, we’re diving into what social anxiety really is, where it comes from, and why it affects so many of us. I’m sharing my own journey, my little tips and tricks, and how I found a path to feeling more calm and present. So, if you’ve ever felt the urge to bail on a party last-minute or felt uncomfortable in a crowd, tune in! We’ll explore the roots of this feeling and, hopefully, help you see that social anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. Let’s find that inner calm, together. What Was Discussed: 00:00 Intro 02:34 Why I’ve Canceled Plans Last Minute 05:29 It’s Not Always About You 07:47 Are You Stopping Yourself From Feeling Better? 08:17 Show Up as Your True Self 10:23 Setting Goals and Giving Yourself an Exit Strategy 11:29 Get Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations 15:13 Be Honest About Your Anxiety 16:11 The “So What” Method 17:47 Ask More Questions and Become Curious 20:22 Sometimes You Just Have to Show Up 21:36 Ayurvedic Tips for Managing Anxiety 22:39 The Cost of Anxiety 23:42 Join A Club 24:40 How Clothing Impacts Confidence 26:03 Self-Love is Key to Confidence Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Meghan Swidler: Are You Bloated Everyday? Signs of Toxins in the Body and What Detox is Best For You
Ever wonder what’s actually in your food, water, or even your makeup? In this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I’m sitting down with the wonderful Meghan Swidler, a holistic health coach and detox queen! We’re diving into all the little (and big!) ways that toxins sneak into our daily lives and what they do to our bodies—yes, even things like your skin, energy, and gut! Meghan shares so much wisdom on how to listen to what your body is telling you, clear out what it doesn’t need, and create space for feeling our absolute best. From simple food swaps to ditching hidden household toxins, this episode is filled with practical tips that don’t feel overwhelming. It’s all about getting back in tune with ourselves and building little habits that help us thrive from the inside out. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:44 Signs You Need a Detox Right Now 05:50 The Four Main Channels of Elimination 07:03 Common Gut Issues Aren’t Normal 11:27 How Blockage in the Colon Creates Toxins 13:40 Toxins Are Everywhere 16:34 Top 3 Ways to Reduce Toxins In Your Body 20:08 What’s Really in Your Water? 25:58 The Hidden Dangers of Hormonal Contraception 34:11 Top Toxins to Avoid While Grocery Shopping 39:25 Your Most Important Investment Is Your Health 42:53 Reducing Toxins at Home 47:18 The Detox Formula 52:14 Deprivation vs. Freedom 54:53 How to Safely Start Your Detox 59:34 Embracing Detox Symptoms 1:03:54 Best Tests for Toxins Follow Meghan: https://meghanswidler.com/ https://www.instagram.com/meghanswidler https://www.linkedin.com/meghanswidler https://linktr.ee/meghanswidler Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!
There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective.
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