In Bed With Alexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) welcomes Reed Amber, a multifaceted sex educator, sex worker, and co-host of the popular podcast Come Curious. In this episode, Reed opens up about her experiences and insights into sex work, body confidence, and intimacy. She shares her journey toward embracing nipple confidence, the challenges of vulva and labia diversity, and how growing up in a “naked family” helped her view normal bodies as healing and empowering. We delve into her private and professional lives, discussing how she balances intimate, private sex with her boyfriend and the content they create for OnlyFans. Reed shares her love for feet and tickle fetishes, breaking down the shame she once felt and how she now embraces her desires—right down to hosting tickle parties in London and experiencing orgasms from unique sensations like tickling or bladder pressure. Reed also reflects on growing up with an autistic mom who was open about sex, the joy and excitement she finds in sex work, and her thoughts on unfair UK laws targeting sex workers. She debunks myths about sex workers, discusses STI stigma and statistics, and opens up about her journey toward sobriety and how it has transformed her sex life, including attending sex parties sober. We also touch on her podcast Come Curious, how she met her co-host Florence (author of This Book Will Make You Feel Something), and how they navigate creative differences. Plus, Reed shares her evolution from being a “size queen” to reevaluating her preferences. Trigger Warning: This episode includes mention of childhood sexual assault. Topics include: Embracing nipple and vulva confidence Balancing sex with your partner vs sex for OnlyFans Growing up in a naked family and its healing effects Reed’s tickle and full bladder fetish UK laws targeting sex workers and their impact STI statistics and breaking down stigmas Sobriety and its effect on her sex life Foot fetish content creation and Reed’s joy in sex work Insights from the Come Curious podcast This episode is a powerful mix of vulnerability, joy, and breaking stigmas about sex, work, and identity. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠https://beducate.me/alexa40

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Genevieve LeJeune, CEO and founder of Skirt Club, a revolutionary space for bisexual women and those curious about exploring their sexuality. Skirt Club has become a global phenomenon, hosting play parties in 36 cities worldwide, empowering women to embrace their desires in a safe and inclusive environment. In this episode, we dive deep into the story of how Skirt Club began as a response to the lack of spaces for bisexual curiosity and how it quickly grew into a vibrant community for women. Genevieve shares what a typical Skirt Club party looks like, how inclusivity is prioritized with clear criteria for who is welcome, and the unique challenges women face when approaching other women in these spaces. We also discuss: The common issues that arise during these parties and how they’re addressed. Why it has been difficult to find women investors to help scale the Skirt Club app. How Skirt Club promotes sexual liberation and creates opportunities for female empowerment. The role of men in Skirt Club’s vision and events. If you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community, curious about female sexuality, or just interested in how women are breaking barriers through sexual exploration, this episode is for you. Join us for a candid conversation about creating safe spaces and empowering bisexual women to embrace their identities. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexasbed

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) dives into the fascinating world of professional domination and kink-aware therapy with Miss Veronica Viper, a seasoned dominatrix and therapist. In this episode, Veronica shares her journey through an unconventional upbringing in different countries, her first experiences with pegging and consensual choking at 16, and how working as a stripper led her to find her true calling as a domme at age 19. We explore her training process, the diverse range of clients she serves—including surprising numbers of women, queer, and non-binary individuals—and the unique custom requests she’s received. Veronica also opens up about her work as a kink-aware therapist, the creative objects she’s used in sessions, and her tips for anyone looking to start their journey in professional domination. Plus, we bond over our shared hatred for overhead lighting and discuss how creating the right environment can make or break an intimate experience. Topics include: How Veronica became a professional dominatrix First-time pegging and exploring kink as a teenager Training as a domme and handling her first clients The unexpected diversity of her clientele Creative tools and methods in her sessions The intersection of therapy and kink awareness Tips for aspiring dominants A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠ ⁠https://beducate.me/alexa40off

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Zoe Atiko, the creative force behind @reignofsovereignty, a groundbreaking harness fashion movement. Zoe shares her journey from burlesque and hat-making to creating fluid, inclusive designs inspired by her experiences in Berlin. We delve into how Zoe’s queerness and dedication to empowering others shape her work, as well as her philosophy of seeing bodies as monuments and rejecting the idea of imperfections. She explains what it’s like working with her, the meaning behind her movement, and her goal to inspire confidence and comfort in all who wear her designs. Topics include: How Berlin inspired the Reign of Sovereignty movement The evolution from burlesque and hat-making to harness fashion Harness fashion as a tool for empowerment and fluid expression Zoe’s queerness journey and its reflection in her designs Creating safe and comfortable spaces for clients Why bodies are monuments and imperfections don’t exist Join us for an inspiring conversation about fashion, identity, and the power of self-expression. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠https://beducate.me/bedwithalexa