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We are joined by Tyomi Morgan for a Masterclass on how to give a great blow job. Tyomi has been teaching her techniques for years and today she reveals more than 30 different methods you can use on your man tonight. We start the podcast talking about Tyomi’s background and talk a lot about how to ride your man with confidence. You’ll learn how to get into the right mindset so that you can enjoy giving oral sex and your partner can feel that enthusiasm. You’re also going to learn things you can do leading up to the blow job so that you’re teasing your man throughout the day, building tension, and having him crave you. Most importantly, Tyomi teaches her step-by-step techniques to use with your mouth, lips, and tongue, as well as your hands to give your partner the greatest blow job of his life. Join us today to hear all this and more!    Key Points From This Episode:   Introducing Tyomi Morgan, her background, and how she became a sex educator and coach. Some reasons women typically don’t feel comfortable riding their man. Overcoming these reservations by connecting the body and the mind. A five-minute tutorial to find confidence and pleasure riding your man tonight. Determining whether or not oral sex is for you. Why you should never give a blow job out of obligation. Whether or not to engage your hands in the process. Having an ‘interview’ process to determine what your partner likes best. The role of teasing and how it can be a kink. Cleaning the penis and genital area. Massaging the penis and balls before giving a blow job. Making sure you have the right size of condom.  Underrated erogenous zones: nipples and hands.  Areas to consider when you start the blow job. Options for lubrication. Advice for anal and prostate play. How to approach edging your partner and how to take it a step further. Exercising the mouth and tongue for strength and stamina.  Making the process more pleasurable for the giver. Approaching the end of the blow job.    Quotes:     “The first thing is getting out of your head; there’s literally no one right way to do anything. It’s either pleasurable, or it’s not.” [0:10:13]   “The only way we are going to bridge the orgasm gap is for women to take control of their own pleasure.” [0:12:55]   “If it’s not a glide, it is not a ride.” [0:14:35]   “If it feels obligatory, trust me when I tell you, the man can feel it.” [0:18:21]   “Edging is definitely the ultimate tease.” [0:42:32]   “What [edging] does is help a man relax into pleasure.”  [0:48:20]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Tyomi Morgan on Twitter — https://x.com/glamazontyomi/  Tyomi Morgan on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/realglamazontyomi/ Tyomi Morgan on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwQWS0xeETkjmSmbIZJO-TA Tyomi Morgan Email — [email protected] Tyomi Morgan Calendly — calendly.com/tyomi Blow Course — https://www.thepleasureacademy.com/courses/Blow Blow Him Away — https://www.amazon.com/Blow-Him-Away-Give-Mind-Blowing-ebook/dp/B000FC2O7U Bad Girls Bible Sex Positions Guide — https://badgirlsbible.com/best-sex-positions 10 Incredible Oral Sex Positions for Wild Orgasms — https://badgirlsbible.com/blowjob-positions/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Have you ever been curious about what the swinger lifestyle might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship. Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you’re a beginner, before examining how to deal with jealousy, and why honest communication is essential! You’ll also learn how to recognize signs that swinging might be right for you, along with red flags you need to know about. Tune in for a deep dive into the swinging community from experts Dan and Lacy!   Key Points From This Episode:   Introducing Dan and Lacy from the Swing Nation Podcast. How Dan and Lacy found themselves involved in the swinger lifestyle together. Their experience with monogamous relationships and why they prefer the swinger lifestyle. Issues they encountered when they first started dating as swingers. Tips and advice on embarking on a journey of non-monogamy together. The benefits of taking it slow when you first start exploring the swinger lifestyle. How to recognize green flags that swinging might be right for you. Why insecurity and jealousy are normal and why good communication is essential. How swinging has benefited their relationship and communication. A breakdown of Dan and Lacy’s boundaries and how they set them. The value of having a list of rules when you’re starting out. Important red flags you should be aware of. Understanding compersion; the happiness you feel when your partner is intimate with others. How non-monogamy could change throughout your life and relationship. What led to them becoming prominent swinger influencers and educators. The type of events that Dan and Lacy host and how to join their Discord community.   Quotes:   “I knew that I can be monogamous if I really wanted to. It's not natural for me. I enjoy the non-monogamous aspect much more. It was nice to find a community that we could do it safely and together in.” — Lacy  [0:06:33] “If you want to take this journey into non-monogamy, it should be something that you're doing together to explore each other's fantasies, to improve your relationship, to improve your sex life.” — Dan [0:10:07]   “The more you engulf yourself and experience things, I think the more you open up to new experiences.” — Dan [0:22:26]   “The average person on OnlyFans makes $150 a month. It takes a lot of work. We have a team of people now that run mine. We have four OnlyFan pages. It's a labor of love. It's taken a lot of work. You have to be comfortable with your body and you have to set clear boundaries.” — Lacy  [0:36:36]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:   The Swing Nation — https://theswingnation.info/ Join the Swinger Society Discord Server! — https://discord.com/invite/swingersociety The Swing Nation Podcast on Swinger Red Flags — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/lifestyle-education-swinger-red-flags/id1582945782?i=1000547768021&l=en-GB The Swing Nation Podcast on Should I start a content subscription  — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/from-swinging-to-subscriptions-should-you-start-an/id1582945782?i=1000645432035&l=en-GB Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experiences shape adult connections. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, why these types tend to be drawn to one another, and how you can support your partner if they are either of these types. We discuss what secure attachment looks like, the benefits of it, and why it’s essential to have a sense of safety in your relationships. Our conversation also unpacks the importance of setting boundaries, the healing practices in Jessica’s book Anxiously Attached, and how parents can support secure attachment in their children. Tune in to learn all about relational patterns and how to embark on a journey toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships! Key Points From This Episode: What led Jessica to the field of psychotherapy. How she came to specialize in co-dependency. Imago therapy: how it helps us heal original wounds through our relationships. What secure attachment looks like. Anxious attachment and the signs that you might have this attachment style. Steps you can take to start healing from anxious attachment. Healing practices in Jessica’s book, Anxiously Attached. Understanding how memories and original wounds are stored in the body. The importance of setting boundaries for healing to take place. Why setting boundaries requires support. Parenting styles that prevent anxious attachment in children. How parents can support a secure attachment in their child. Assessing what level of anxiety is normal (especially in our current society). The definition of avoidant attachment. Why anxious and avoidant individuals tend to be drawn to one another. How social media and dating apps could be contributing to anxious attachment. What you can do to support an anxious or avoidant partner. Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Jessica Baum — https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/ Jessica Baum on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-baum-lmhc-cap-038a1538/ Jessica Baum on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ Be Self-Full — https://www.beselffull.com/ Relationship Institute of Palm Beach — https://www.relationshipspb.com/ Anxiously Attached — https://www.amazon.com/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060 Imago Relationship Therapy — https://harvilleandhelen.com/initiatives/what-is-imago/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in a model of fairness, only to discover that, in reality, that balance was virtually impossible to achieve. It was out of this frustration that they developed what they call The 80/80 Marriage, a model rooted in radical generosity and shared success, which led to them co-authoring the New York Times bestselling book The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship. I talk with Nate and Kaley about the concept of the 80/80 marriage, why fixating on fairness doesn’t work, and how adopting a mindset of radical generosity can transform your relationship. Our conversation also gets into key aspects of their book, like being intentional about each person’s role, creating explicit values, and setting priorities and boundaries together. Join us for a fascinating conversation on equality, radical generosity, and how to strive for an 80/80 relationship!   Key Points From This Episode:   •    Introducing today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp. •    The story of how they met and got married. •    Why the first two years of their marriage were so challenging. •    The many ways couples fight about fairness and why it causes resentment. •    How they wrote the 80/80 Marriage together. •    The concept of an 80/80 relationship, and how it differs from one that is 50/50. •    Why it’s about striving for balance and radical generosity. •    Steps to creating the right mindset for an 80/80 marriage. •    How to create the structure for an 80/80 relationship. •    Building a bridge between mindset and structure through values. •    How to take a more intentional approach to your roles as a couple. •    Setting priorities and boundaries as a couple (and why it can be so liberating). •    Insights on what to do when you have an unwilling or reluctant partner. •    How to approach your partner about entering an 80/80 relationship. •    Nate’s new book Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.   Quotes:   “We're really the first generation in all of human history, striving toward equal marriage. [0:05:39]   “There's no such thing as 160% of anything. The whole idea is [that] it doesn't make sense, [so] strive. And then, [with] both parties striving for 80%, you land somewhere in the space of balance.”  [0:11:18]   “There are no good or bad, or right or wrong, values. There are known and implicit values. When you have known, or explicit, or agreed to, values, then you have a north star, where you can build the structure of your relationship. When you have implicit values, it's very challenging.”  [0:23:54]   “Most couples have never taken that step back and [have] never thought from an intentional place: ‘How could we redesign our roles, such that [it] really works for both of us?’”  [0:28:05]   “For many couples, when even just one person shifts to 80/80, it opens up a new space for the other person, who might be the undercontributor, to contribute more and to be generous in turn.”  [0:37:11]   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:   Nate Klemp Nate Klemp on LinkedIn Nate Klemp on X Kaley Klemp Kaley Klemp on LinkedIn Kaley Klemp on X The 80/80 Marriage The 80/80 Marriage on Instagram The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter