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Are You in a Cult? Recognizing the Subtle Signs of Manipulation
Harmony Slater and Russell Case sit down with Tonya Ridings, a trauma therapist and Kundalini yoga teacher, to explore the often-overlooked dynamics of high-control groups, cult-like communities, and spiritual bypassing. Tonya shares her deep knowledge of somatic psychotherapy, religious trauma, and the subtle ways manipulation can creep into even well-meaning spiritual spaces.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ How trauma leads people into high-control environments
✅ The subtle manipulation tactics used in spiritual communities
✅ The fine line between dedication and coercion
✅ Red flags that indicate a group may be controlling or cult-adjacent
✅ How to reclaim personal autonomy after leaving a high-control environment
✅ The role of somatic healing in processing trauma
About Our Guest:
Tonya Ridings is a therapist specializing in trauma healing, particularly in the context of high-control religious and spiritual environments. With over 35 years of experience, she integrates somatic therapy, psychology, and yoga to help individuals reclaim their autonomy and inner wisdom.
Connect with Tonya:
🌍 Website: TonyaRidings.com
📸 Instagram: @TonyaRidings
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From Music to Mindset Mastery: A Unique Journey of Transformation
Today, Harmony sits down with Shimrit Nativ, a transformational coach, mentor, and founder of Master Your Path Academy. Shimrit’s journey is one of bold transformation—leaving behind a thriving career in music to step into her true calling of helping others unlock their full potential.
Together, they explore:
✨ The subconscious programming that holds us back and how to shift it
✨ Why meditation alone isn’t always enough for deep transformation
✨ The role of energetics in personal and professional success
✨ How to avoid burnout while still achieving your biggest goals
✨ The 18-step process for reprogramming your beliefs and identity
Shimrit shares insights from working with thought leaders like Joe Dispenza, Bob Proctor, and Bruce Lipton and how their teachings influenced her own coaching methodology.
She also offers a free meditation and workshop to help listeners integrate these practices into their own lives. Be sure to check the links below!
Shimrit Nativ is a Success & Freedom Mentor, CEO and founder of Master Your Path Academy.
📩 Free Meditation & Workshop: https://www.shimritnativ.com
📲 Connect with Shimrit on Instagram: @ShimritNativ
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How to use Tarot to Ignite your Creativity and Manifest your Dreams
In this illuminating episode, hosts Harmony Slater welcome acclaimed author, tarot reader, and creativity coach, Lisa Kessler. Lisa shares her unique journey of blending intuitive tarot readings with creative writing, revealing how tarot can be a transformative tool for overcoming writer’s block, building self-confidence, and manifesting personal goals.
Lisa dives deep into the practical and spiritual dimensions of tarot, emphasizing how intuitive practices can strengthen your creative process. She opens up about her personal struggles with self-doubt, how tarot became integral to her path as a successful novelist, and provides actionable insights for listeners interested in exploring tarot themselves.
Whether you’re a writer searching for fresh inspiration, a tarot enthusiast eager to deepen your intuitive skills, or simply someone looking for practical tools to navigate life’s challenges, this conversation will empower you to find clarity, creativity, and renewed purpose.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
How to integrate tarot reading with your writing process
Simple ways to tap into your intuition and enhance creativity
Lisa’s journey from skeptical beginner to bestselling author
Techniques for overcoming creative blocks using tarot
Insightful perspectives on manifesting your dreams with intention
Connect with Lisa Kessler:
Website: https://www.authorlisakessler.com
Instagram: @ldydisney
Facebook: Lisa Kessler
Connect with Harmony:
Clarity Call with Harmony: https://harmonyslater.as.me/Clarity-Session
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Breaking Free from Extremes: The Journey from Discipline to Balance
In this powerful episode of Finding Harmony Podcast, we welcome back Kate Winter, a registered psychodynamic counselor, yoga teacher, and former police detective, to explore the deep patterns that shape our behavior—and how we can break free from them.
Kate shares her personal journey of moving through extremes—from marathon running and bodybuilding to Ashtanga yoga and psychotherapy—and how each phase of her life revealed deeper lessons about control, identity, and healing.
Trigger Warning
This episode discusses topics that may be sensitive for some listeners, including eating disorders, body image struggles, exercise addiction, trauma, and fertility challenges. If these topics are triggering for you, please listen with care or seek support from a trusted professional.
Key Topics Discussed:
The patterns of competition and self-worth that drive overachievers
Why resistance isn’t something to fight—it’s something to listen to
The role of therapy in complementing yoga practice for deeper
self-awareness
How letting go of control allowed Kate to get pregnant after years of struggle
The connection between somatic experience, psychotherapy, and healing trauma
What happens when we stop pushing and start trusting our bodies
This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever struggled with perfectionism, discipline, or the fear of slowing down. Kate’s story is a beautiful reminder that true transformation often begins with letting go.
Kate Winter is a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist based in Brighton in the UK.
As a former Police Officer and senior leader in a Rape Crisis Centre, Kate has spent the past twenty years working on the frontline of trauma. Moving away from the idea that trauma is something to be 'healed', Kate works on the premise that trauma can be used as a vehicle for individual and collective transformation.
With additional experience as an Ashtanga yoga practitioner and Personal Trainer, Kate uses traditional psychoanalysis, yoga philosophy and movement practices to help clients bring about lasting change.
👉 Special Announcement: Join Harmony and Russell for a 10-day yoga immersion in Gothenburg, Sweden, this March! Visit harmonyslater.com or DM @harmonyslaterofficial for details.
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Kate Winter: Website | Instagram
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How to Break Free from Limiting Beliefs and Step into Your Power
“You can’t build a new life while telling yourself the same old story.”
If you’ve ever felt stuck, undervalued, or afraid to take up space, this episode is for you.
Harmony sits down with Dr. Julie Artis, career coach, sociologist, and advocate for women’s leadership. They get real about why so many women struggle with self-worth, how old societal patterns still shape our financial lives, and—most importantly—how we can rewrite the story and step fully into our power.
What’s Inside This Episode?
Why so many women fear visibility—and how to move past it
The simple reflection rituals that can help you release old patterns
Why your inner critic isn’t your enemy (and what it’s really trying to tell you)
The game-changing power of community and why we thrive together
How to stop seeing success as a solo mission and embrace collaboration over competition
“We’re not meant to just survive—we’re meant to thrive. And when women thrive, entire communities transform.” — Harmony Slater
QUOTES TO REMEMBER:
“Women have been taught to shrink. It’s time to take up space.”
“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”
“Every time a woman claims her worth, the world changes for the better.”
How to Connect & Work with Julie Artis
Website: Julie Artis Coaching
Instagram: @DrJulieArtis
Join Harmony’s Upcoming Yoga Retreat
10-Day Yoga Journey in Gothenburg, Sweden
March 21-30, 2025
A transformative blend of asana, philosophy, and deep healing
Visit https://harmonyslater.com/events or DM @harmonyslaterofficial on Instagram for details
Join B-School: https://harmonyslater.com/b-school-marie-forleo
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