Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong? 
This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid "I Love You My Narcissist" portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love. 
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THE FILM 
• I Love You My Narcissist (ILYMN) 
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MORE ABOUT ALI & STEFANIE SCHMAHL 
Ali Schmahl (Director) and Stefanie Schmahl (Producer/Actress) are Berlin-based independent filmmakers who created "I Love You My Narcissist"—a groundbreaking docu-fiction hybrid featuring expert interviews with Dr. Kerry McAvoy, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Lisa Sonni, and others. 
• Website: ilymn.film 
• Social: @ilymn.film on TikTok and Instagram
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ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app
The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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"My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I'm trapped in a 'silent divorce.' What are my actual options?" 
This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change. 
In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, explains why staying together without changing is still a form of abuse. 
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ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app
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First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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Lost empathy for yourself? You've already lost the fight. 
This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse. 
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🔹 Tammy walks you through recognizing when thoughts are just thoughts—not truth—and how to stop surrendering to negative beliefs. 
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TAMMY'S BOOKS 
• The Empathy Gap: It Is Black and White 
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MORE ABOUT TAMMY TRIOLO 
Tammy Triolo is a cultural strategist, author, and creator of the Empathy Scorecard. As founder of PCQ Consulting, she works with companies to improve culture and develop sustainable DEI initiatives. 
• Website: tammytriolo.com 
• Social: @tammytriolo on TikTok and Instagram 
• Podcast: The Empathy Lab (Substack)
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ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app
The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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“My doctor keeps telling me it's all in my head—but I know something's wrong. Why won't they listen?" 
This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…” 
In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down why healthcare settings attract people who crave power and control, how the doctor-patient dynamic creates dangerous vulnerability, and why women are especially at risk of medical dismissal. 
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Dr Kerry’s Resources
ReclaimYou: AI-powered coaching app built on Dr. Kerry’s experience.
The Complete Recovery Collection: Educational resources for narcissistic abuse healing
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
The Toxic-Free Relationship Club: coaching & community support
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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Resources
ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app
The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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Ever wonder why you didn't see it coming? 
This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after. 
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🔹 Hennessy breaks down the grooming steps you never saw coming. 
Don reveal why 75% of people think "it couldn't happen to me.”
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HENNESSY’S BOOKS 
How He Gets Into Her Head
Steps to Freedom: Escaping Intimate Control
How He Wins: Abusive Intimate Partners Going Free
MORE ABOUT DON HENNESSY 
Don Hennessy is an Irish psychotherapist and author who spent decades working directly with abusive men and their partners. He’s at work writing his fourth book. 
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Resources
ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app
The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support
Follow Dr. Kerry!
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism.
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This podcast/video is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute therapy, counseling, or professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis, please call 911 or your local emergency number.