Fact or Fiction? Child Sleep Science with a Pediatric Neurologist and Sleep Specialist
There is a lot of terminology and misconceptions thrown around in the pediatric sleep world especially on social media. Can they self- settle? Are wake windows a real thing? And what about regressions?
I welcome back Sujay Kansagra who is a pediatric neurologist and sleep medicine physician at Duke who has dedicated his life to helping kids (and their parents) sleep better. He knows sleep and the importance of it. He was on my show before on an episode called Sleep-training: What the evidence does or doesn't say.
He joins me to discuss:
If genetics play a role in sleep and if there is such a thing as a “good” or “bad” sleeper
If “wake-windows” are evidence-based
If there’s a certain age we would expect a baby to “sleep through the night”
The truth behind sleep regressions
To connect with Sujay Kansagra follow him on Instagram @thatsleepdoc and purchase his book My Child Won’t Sleep: A Quick Guide for the Sleep-Deprived Parent
Additional Resources About Sleep:
Review of Sleep Training Data: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17068979/
Cortisol and Sleep Training Research Study: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27221288/
Short Sleep Gene: https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2019/08/415261/after-10-year-search-scientists-find-second-short-sleep-gene
"Sleeping Through the Night" Article: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20974775/
Wide Range of Normal Sleep During First Year: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12563055/
Sleep Regressions and Data Behind Fixed Months for Regression: https://www.babysleep.com/sleep-advice/what-is-a-sleep-regression/
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00:00 – Intro
01:17 – Meet Dr. Sujay Kansagra: Pediatric Sleep Doc at Duke
04:38 – Do Genetics Impact How Children Sleep?
06:05 – Why Labels Like “Bad Sleeper” Can Be Harmful
08:06 – What’s the Deal with Wake Windows?
10:31 – Why Overtired Kids Have Trouble Falling Asleep
12:55 – Are Sleep “Crutches” Like Nursing or Rocking Bad?
15:00 – When and How to Phase Out Sleep Associations
16:33 – The Parent Sleep Guilt Spiral—And Why It’s Not Helping
18:05 – Social Media Pressure and Parenting Choices
19:30 – When Should Babies Sleep Through the Night?
23:04 – Is There a Minimum Weight for Sleep Training?
25:19 – Why Sleep Isn’t Just Sleep: Feeding, Temperament, and More
25:59 – What Science Says About Sleep Regressions
28:44 – Why Modern Parenting Creates Fear Around Normal Sleep
30:08 – Don’t Pathologize Your Parenting Journey
30:52 – Final Message: Sleep Is Hard—Even for Sleep Experts
32:14 – Where to Learn More from Dr. Kansagra
33:02 – Wrapping Up: Science, Sanity, and Sleep Confidence
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The Follow-Up: Tips for Labor, Delivery, and Postpartum Recovery
Whether you're preparing for birth or in the thick of postpartum recovery, this episode is packed with real talk and practical advice. We’re joined by Liesel from Mommy Labor Nurse (@mommy.labornurse) to answer some of the most common questions about labor, C-sections, vaginal delivery, and what actually happens after the baby is born.
We cover:
How to advocate for yourself during labor (without conflict)
Must-have items for C-section and vaginal birth recovery
How to care for stitches and prevent infection
What no one tells you about postpartum bleeding
Pain management tips and why you shouldn't try to be a hero
Why stool softeners are your best friend (seriously)
From grabber tools to emotional resilience, this is the kind of candid postpartum prep we all deserve.
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00:00 – Welcome & Episode Preview
00:46 – Advocating for Yourself During Labor
03:04 – C-Section Recovery Must-Haves
05:28 – Postpartum Tips for Vaginal Deliveries
07:12 – How to Care for Stitches (C-Section & Vaginal)
10:28 – One Thing I Wish I Knew Postpartum
13:47 – Why the First 24 Hours Postpartum Are Wild
14:22 – Surprised by Postpartum Bleeding? You’re Not Alone
15:16 – Wrap Up & Takeaways
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Food Marketing: Myths, Buzzwords, and Fear-Based Messaging
Buzzwords like “non-GMO” and “all natural” can make a product appear like a good choice but with confusing marketing how do we curb the overwhelm and make good food decisions for our kids? Whether you're navigating snack aisles or Instagram reels, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone who wants real, evidence-based guidance on feeding their family well.
I’m joined by Dr. Adrian Chavez, who has a Ph.D. in Nutrition and Health Promotion, to discuss:
How fear-based marketing and social media myths mislead parents.
How to decode buzzwords like "organic" and "non-GMO" and make informed choices without the guilt.
Practical, judgment-free tips to build healthy habits for your family—without the overwhelm.
To connect with Dr. Adrian Chavez follow him on Instagram @dr.adrian.chavez and check out all his resources at https://dradrianchavez.com/
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00:00 – Meet Dr. Adrian Chavez
02:29 – How Adrian Got Into Nutrition (And Unlearning Misinformation)
05:14 – What Sparked His Social Media Mission
07:49 – Education vs. Debunking Online
10:00 – Social Media Fear Tactics and Food Shaming
13:12 – Is the “Healthier” Option Worth It?
16:15 – How to Spot Buzzwords and Misleading Labels
20:41 – The Reality of Organic Food Labels
21:00 – Marketing Tricks That Make Junk Food Look Healthy
24:05 – Why Education Beats Regulation
27:03 – Movement vs. Nutrition in Kids’ Health
29:07 – How Packaging & Characters Influence Kids’ Food Choices
31:56 – What Real Nutrition Education Should Feel Like
34:22 – Are There Hidden Additives in Kids’ Foods?
38:23 – Final Message: Start Small & Stay Consistent
43:05 – Where to Find Dr. Adrian Chavez
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The Follow-Up: How to Handle Food Throwing, Hitting, and Big Toddler Emotions
In this The Follow-Up episode with the incredible team behind @biglittlefeelings, we're diving deeper into the everyday power struggles parents face — food throwing, hitting, biting, meltdowns, and more. I'm joined by Kristin and Deena to break down practical, compassionate scripts for managing these challenging behaviors without yelling, shaming, or losing your cool.
You’ll learn:
What to actually say when your toddler throws food
How to respond calmly and effectively to hitting and biting
Why trying to teach in the middle of a meltdown doesn’t work
The difference between setting a boundary and escalating a situation
How validating emotions can prevent anxiety and support long-term emotional health
Whether you're parenting a 1-year-old or a 5-year-old, these tools are grounded in developmental psychology, trauma-informed care, and real-world parenting experience. If you’ve ever wondered why your child isn’t “listening” or felt stuck in a cycle of frustration, this episode is for you.
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Data-Driven Parenting: Finding Balance in Information Overload
What does it really mean to parent with data—and how do you do it without losing your mind?
Let’s unpack the power and pitfalls of data-driven parenting in a world full of misinformation and clickbait. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by studies, headlines, or trying to “do it right,” this episode will bring clarity, nuance, and a whole lot of reassurance.
Today, I’m joined by Emily Oster, an economist and NYT best-selling author, to discuss:
How data can guide parenting decisions—without demanding perfection or causing overwhelm.
Ways to navigate conflicting research, misinformation, and fear-based headlines in today’s media landscape.
Practical tips for building data literacy, knowing when to seek evidence, and trusting your instincts as a parent.
To connect with Emily Oster follow her on Instagram @profemilyoster and check out all her resources at parentdata.org
00:00 – Introduction to Emily Oster
02:49 – How Emily Got Started in Parenting Data
04:16 – The Promise and Limits of Data-Driven Parenting
07:02 – Sleep, Solids, and the Complexity of Parenting Choices
08:08 – Honesty About Data Limitations
09:02 – When the Data Doesn’t Exist
10:09 – Media Panic & Screen Time Headlines
11:27 – Building Data Literacy as a Parent
13:32 – The Rise of Pseudoscience & Misinformation
14:55 – How to Tell If a Study Is Legitimate
16:28 – Parasite Cleanses & Misused Studies
19:03 – Competing With Clickbait
22:27 – Vaccine Conversations & Honest Health Communication
24:25 – The Hope for a Nuanced Future
27:01 – How to Stay Informed Without Overwhelm
29:00 – Parenting as a Process of Figuring It Out
30:08 – What Really Feels Overwhelming
33:08 – Trusting Lived Experience Over Data Alone
34:12 – The Search for Certainty vs. Embracing the Mess
35:48 – You’re Not Going to Mess Up Your Kid
37:59 – Closing & Where to Find Emily
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Sobre The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom
The PedsDocTalk Podcast is your go-to parenting resource, hosted by Dr. Mona Amin, a trusted pediatrician, parenting expert, and mom of two. As a top 50 Parenting Podcast in the U.S., this show delivers expert-backed guidance on child development, health, illness, behavior, feeding, and sleep—giving parents the confidence to navigate every stage from baby to teen.
Each episode dives into real-life parenting challenges, featuring conversations with specialists in pediatrics, child psychology, nutrition, and parental well-being. From potty training and sleep training to tackling tantrums, picky eating, discipline, screen time, postpartum recovery, and developmental milestones, Dr. Mona provides practical, science-backed advice that actually works.
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